Well, Jared and I got home last night from a trip to AR. The trip was at a time almost exact to the trip we took last year for my sister's wedding. This trip was for my brother's wedding.

The wedding was Saturday and was, I think, the shortest wedding I've ever attended. The ceremony consisted of only the vows. The lady who did the wedding was very (VERY) nervous. It was her first wedding. In her nervousness (I assume) she spoke very quickly, and very obviously mispronounced several words, including my brother's name. After the ceremony there was a dinner/reception. There was tons of food. We sat and chatted and such for a while before going back to the motel.

Mom was exhausted by the time we got back t the motel. In addition to that she was bitten all over her foot by some ants--not fire ants, but ones that were very aggressive if disturbed. Her foot was all swollen within just a few minutes of being bitten. I think she was doing better the next morning though.

Sunday we drove back to Mom and Dads and basically just vegetated for what was left of the evening. We did play a game of Shanghai Rummy--which I lost rather spectacularly!

On Monday Mom, Papaw, Jared, and I went to a nearby state park. We attended a "Heron Watch" next to the White River. We saw 3 herons, but they were all up in the trees. They refused to come down so we could get a better look as they fed in the river! Stubborn birds! The one did give us a pretty good look at himself up in the tree though. And at least we saw some! After that we went up to the visitor's center and Jared took pictures in the gardens there--he got some good ones of some butterflies. We looked around at the museum-type exhibits and the gift store inside the center. Then we went out on the deck to see the view. While there we got a chance to hear the horn that signals that the generators are coming on (the horn warns fishermen/women further down river to get out of the water before it rises), we stood and watched as the generators came on and the water level rose. We watched a small island in the river disappear in the rising water in about 15-20 minutes. It was interesting to watch. Our 'outing' ended with a picnic. That evening we played another game of Shanghai Rummy. I think I came in second that time--Jared won, and he was rather excited because he "never wins" that game!

Tuesday we took it easy. Mom gave me a crocheting lesson and I worked on that. Mom did a bit herself and then smashed gnomes. We played some more cards that evening while watching some TV.

And that was basically this year's 'vacation.'

It is good to be home, but rather sad as well. I miss my mom. We have a good time together and our visits never seem long enough. It's especially hard when she, as she did yesterday, cries during the good-byes. She's very lonely right now and still struggling to get a semblance of 'normalcy' back in her life. Things will get better; I'm sure of it, but the getting there is hard.

~The Bunny

I've decided that I'm a terrible blogger. I'm so far behind that it would be more trouble than it's worth to try to catch up! Here's the short synopsis (and if you want more detail you'll have to talk to me!!):

Since I blogged last: 1) My grandmother passed away. We miss her, but are glad that she's not in pain anymore. 2) Mom started and completed her chemotherapy, and was in and out of the hospital for about 6 weeks after the last treatment. She's doing better now, but is still not back to being herself. 3) I found out that I have an extra bone in my foot... And ended up with tendonitis wearing a brace on my ankle/foot and doing physical therapy. 4) Had the GITP meet-up. 5) Had our 5th wedding anniversary. 6) Went to IN for my grandma's memorial service. I managed to sing the song she'd requested I sing. That was good. It was great to see my family, many of whom I hadn't seen in ages. Jared and I ended up having a several hour long conversation with one of my dad's brothers--I never would have expected that! And spent some time with Papaw. Not enough, but it never is.

Other than that it's just been work as usual. At church Nancy retired leaving the choir without an accompanist (as the board decided not to look for a new one). The church choir had a month long vacation in July. We started back up recently. For now the decision is to go ahead with the Christmas cantata and then 're-evaluate' after that... That was my decision, since I'm still not sure what should be done. Its rough though.

Well, that should mostly cover it.

So now summer is gone. The school year has started. And Jared and I still haven't had a real vacation. Don't get me wrong--I enjoy visiting our families very much. We miss them a lot, and not being near enough to seem them as often as we would like. But it just seems that all our vacation time is spent traveling to visit family. We haven't had a vacation purely for something fun to do (going camping, or to the beach, anything) since our honeymoon 5 years ago. Isn't that sad?

Jared and I tried to go camping last summer, but it didn't happen. This year we had a whole list of things we wanted to do, and didn't do most of it. We did do a bit of hiking, but then my foot put an end to that. We rode our new bikes a few times, but not as much as we'd have liked. We didn't go anywhere (aside from the memorial service), or do anything interesting. We both still have some vacation time, but we'll need it to go to my brother's wedding and then for visiting family at Christmas. So there's no vacation for us in sight. Maybe next year? Who knows, but I'm feeling rather pessimistic right now so I'm going to say I'm not counting on it.

I guess I should be done complaining. It'd just be nice to do something different, new, and fun--just the two of us. At least we got to go see family--that was good. It is better than what some have been/are able to do. So Sheri, knock it off! -- Okay, will do!

On that note I'll close...until next time.